Yes.. confidence can be mistaken for being bossy. You know what you want, you take charge and you may intimidate those who are not as confident or understand the confident mind and attitude.
Your confidence has a lot to do with who you are as a person. High and low levels of confidence can show up in every area of your life and can either help you or hinder you.
In order to always have high levels of confidence, pay attention to your surroundings. Listen to the vibes and acknowledge what needs to stay or what needs to leave.
Your confidence is everything. Don’t allow anyone the pleasure to steal it, demean it or not value it. Listed below are 10 ways to identify a self confident person.
1. Self-confident people are able to meet work deadlines
Self-confidence has the ability to make employees perform more effectively at their jobs. Confident employees are able to take on multifaceted tasks with a greater level of commitment and concentration. Self-confidence breeds enthusiasm and lets a person inspire their co-workers. Individuals like these are valuable to an employer because they can get the job done. Self-confident people have the ability to succeed at whatever they put their minds to.
2. Self-confident people are faithful and prayerful
Self-confident people know and understand that there is something greater than them that gives them strength and encouragement to push through all hardship and adversity they encounter. Self-confident people are constantly inspiring and motivating and sometimes forget that they need it too.
3. Self-confident people compliment and support others
Self-confident people are never in competition with trying to be better than others. They understand that they are their only competition and no one can beat them at being them. Self-confident people strive to be better everyday and surround themselves with other self-confident people. They are go getters and always seek to challenge themselves to be better at everything they do while encouraging others to do the same. Self-confident people can easily spot one with low confidence and typically reaches out to cheer them up and on as a leader and spear of influence.
4. Self-confident people have a positive outlook
A self-confident person is often organized and able to stick to a schedule. Being organized helps a person stay on top of things in every area of their life. Being able to finish a job on time and well is very encouraging to a self-confident person. You can often spot a self-confident person by his smile, cheerful personality and outstanding demeanor.
5. Self-confident people are often healthier
Self-confident people take care of their body, their mind, their spirit and soul. They don’t allow toxicity to enter. Self-confident people are better equipped to deal with stressful situations with a level head. They are confident that they can make it through any situation and solve any problem. This aids in avoiding such health problems as high blood pressure, hypertension, and even anger. Self-confident people are likely to live a healthier life with a positive attitude.
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6. Self-confident people can spend more quality time at home
A good day spent at work often dictates how a person will be at home after work. A sense of accomplishment on the job helps a person be more family friendly and upbeat. He or she will want to spend more time with family, which is beneficial for everyone in the long run.
7. Self-confident people are better friends and partners
It is easier to invest time in a relationship when you are up on yourself and organized in your life. Self-confident people are often better able to draw the line between work and family, allowing for more balance and harmonious relationships with family and friends. Self-confident people seem to be able to bind relationships through time and care. People are attracted to them and self-confident people make the best friends. Nevertheless, they are picky with who they call friends and who they select as a partner.
8. Self-confident people have higher incomes
Self-confidence helps employees work well independently or as part of a team. They can take the lead, follow someone else’s instructions without problems or conflict. They are not afraid to acknowledge that they deserve a promotion or raise, and ask for it. They believe they are worth whatever they ask for. They work hard and smart. Self-confident people know their worth, they know their value and they earn it.
9. Self-confident people are often self employed in their own business
Many self-confident people prefer to create their own salary guidelines. Whether it’s full time or as a side hustle, they never settle for just an ordinary life. They are destiny controllers. Self-confident people make every purpose to separate themselves and their lifestyle from being ordinary.
10. People look up to self-confident people
Self-confident people are more likely to achieve personal and professional successes than someone who looks down on him or herself. Self-confident people have energy and magnetism that draws people in. They believe in themselves and have the courage to solve problems and deal with anything that is thrown their way. People like to be around a self-confident person. Get more confidence and build the brand of you with my FREE course here.
Self confidence is a priceless characteristic. Some self-confident people work hard to remain that way while others struggle with it daily. Do you struggle with self-confidence?
In order to boost your self-confidence, understand that no one is better than you. You are given the same 24 hours as the next person. Your confidence is built into your desire and hunger for life. Tell yourself daily that you are capable, you are successful and you are loved. Be intentional about your day, your goals and your purpose. Step out on faith and cheer yourself forward and towards your goals. Surround yourself with others who share your desired values. Be the best you not sometimes, but all times. I hope this message gives you the courage to believe you are enough.
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I agree that self-confident people support and compliment others. This is a characteristic found in a true leader as well.
Yes.. self confidence breads other self confidence.
Amen to the deadlines thing. I have no idea why people are so negative about that, it helps me be productive and super organized despite my hectic lifestyle!
Yes.. Amen! No deadline = possibly never finishing. Deadlines give accountability.
I feel like I’m a fairly self-confident person. As I read through your list, I was nodding my head because almost all of this applies to me. Including meeting deadlines and working for myself.
I love this! I feel pretty self-confident but I def doubt myself some days.
We all self doubt here and there. But it behooves one to not fall into the trap of making it consistent.
Self confidence and a happy, positive disposition go hand-in-hand. If you’re hopeful and confident about the future, there’s really no reason to be gloomy.
Correct. But even confidence get checked every now & then.
I like how you link self confidence to being tuned in to other people. I think the key difference between the positivity of self confidence and the negativity of sheer arrogance is being in relationship w/others, vs. only thinking about yourself.
I think it’s so true that self-confident people support others! That’s so important.
This is what I need to boost my self-confidence. This post is very inspirational and definitely something worth sharing!
I love this list and yes I think you are right on this one. Supporting others 100% shoes self confidence x
I definitely agree that a self confident person can spend more quality time at home. I am a strong believer in making that happen.
Woah! This list is so true, every point. That’s for sharing
You made some awesome points. The first point reminds me of how I’ve grown over the years in my career. Stressing to complete tasks decreased because my confidence increased. Great post!
Great list! Would love to know you favorite resources to for growing self-confidence!
Thanks for this great post, I agree with all the points you make. One thing, I think it’s also a sign of self-confidence if you can openly acknowledge areas you struggle with. What are your thoughts on this?
Good types. Sometimes Im confused about what type of confident people are around me.
I agree with all these specially number 3. I tend to be generous when it comes to complimenting people – like whenever I like their outfit or they did a great job on a project. Some doesn’t enjoy it and feel insecure – like they’re going to be outdone by the other.
Love this list! Thanks for all the ideas.
This is such a great post and i do struggle with mental health and it does affect my confidence . I try hard to stay positive but these tips are a wonderful outline to building that self love and confidence 🙂
I’m all about being self confident if its in a way that’s not overly self righteous & a being a know -it-all. That’s such a turnoff for me.
I’m all about finding that confidence these days and remembering what I do well, as opposed to always thinking about what other people are doing better!
Confident people sparkle and shine, but they might not even realize why! If you are a confident person, the world is a happier place to be.
I couldn’t agree more these are on spot. Thanks for sharing this
Being self-confidence makes a huge difference for sure! Works out in so many ways in life
Loved this list, especially how confident people don’t let toxicity enter. You brought up points that I wouldn’t think of initially with confidence, but I totally agree with them. Great post and reminders…Sometimes these are easier said than done, but always worth it!
I agree that confident people earn so much more in life (and I’m not referring to money). It’s hard to build up yourself to get to that point of self confidence that you are talking about in this post, but once you do, the world can be yours.
I agree with all of this. There is power in self confidence.
I love these signs for a confident person. I am trying my best each day to be more and more self-confident.
Self-confidence is such a powerful trait to have. We’re naturally happier people and naturally draw in others like us and repel the negative nancies of the world b/c they just can’t handle it. Which is fine. They’re triggered for a reason, maybe one day they’ll come back around after the go on their own personal journey.
Yes! Self confidence is key and to get to that level requires facing fears and a growth mindset. Fab post!
I agree self confidence is definitely something most woman lack. It’s definitely something I’m focused on rebuilding. Thanks for sharing. Such a uplifting post!
I agree self confident ppl have more positive outlooks!!